Comments on: Side effects for users of porn

By: chiknichameli

chiknichameli — Fri, 20 Apr 2012 15:19:57 +0000

i’v read ur article nd watevr explanation nd symptoms u’v given regarding the problems seen during intercourse due to heavy/gud use of porn by the partner is very much tru nd similar to my problem indeed! i hv been married for only 2 yrs now!bt i’hv figured out dat my husband masterbates watching porns which is causing big prob to my married lyf!when i ws about to give him a divorce,he claimed that he wudnt do it anymore nd he is keeping his words.But,it the new problem now is that,he cant turn himself on witout watching porn!week passes by nd we keep trying to intercourse bt it becums hard for him to erect without help of porn.Should i actualy leave him?is he curable?how can he be cured nd wats will be my step?plzz help me

By: R Pike

R Pike — Sat, 14 Apr 2012 13:36:25 +0000

Roberto, Your statement is oh so true. When you get lost in the world of porn, its as is you have stepped into another dimension and you loose track of time. Countless hours are gone, never to return. Sad really, you only get so much time. Use it wisely and invest it in eternal causes and people you love. Thanks Roberto

By: R Pike

R Pike — Sat, 14 Apr 2012 13:33:26 +0000

You seem to be burned out from the porn. I would be it now takes some pretty wild pornography to get you aroused. If that is the case, your wife seems not very exciting to you anymore. Let me know if this rings true. I would guess your wife does not know of your addiction. What did you tell her the last time you tried making love? You are not beyond redemption! I suggest you start working the battle plan as I have laid out in my book! You need to quit the porn and stop wearing out your sex drive on it. Save yourself for your wife! The road to recovery is long and hard, but start today on it. I am here if you need help.

By: stigezy

stigezy — Tue, 10 Apr 2012 12:18:19 +0000

Hi, i have been masturbating for the past 17yrs, i feel my case is beyond redemption,not until recently when i started havin dificulty satisfying my spouse did i realise i might be in trouble. the problem is that i find it very difficult to get aroused when i am with my spouse, and when i eventually do, my erection dont last up to 3mins before loosin it. this has caused a strain in my relationship and I urgently need help.

By: Roberto

Roberto — Sat, 03 Mar 2012 21:00:59 +0000

There is one thing missing in your list. The time that flies away and never gets back. You as an individual become more limited because you lost that time to improve as a person, to enjoy a new hobby, to learn a new language, to improve in knowledge to get ahead at work, etc.

By: General Battle Plan

General Battle Plan — Sat, 08 Jan 2011 16:10:43 +0000

Try real sex with your spouse. Find another outlet. You need to enroll into a 12 step type program that will help you find other outlets for this urge. I found old hobbies and trying to steer my thinking in another direction to help a lot.

By: will

will — Sat, 23 Oct 2010 10:35:35 +0000

how do you get the same satisfaction with out the vice? what are some alternatives?

By: General Battle Plan

General Battle Plan — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 19:24:26 +0000

Keep your sobriety going and don’t give up!

By: Reaping What you Sow « Battle Plan – Get your plan to quit pornography

Tue, 20 Oct 2009 11:56:55 +0000

[...] The things that we reap are often not apparent to us. It is hard to see the effects that porn has on us because it is very deeply rooted inside. Many of us won’t act out in a way that will land us in jail or cause divorce. Just because the effects of Pornography useage are not clear does not mean we are using it without h…. [...]

By: h00kd

h00kd — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 00:06:01 +0000

How true this is. After experiencing several months of sobriety, I see some of this in my past (and present) self. Thank you.