How to confirm your husband watching Porn on the net

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Is Your Husband Watching Porn on the net?

Sorry guys, but I am going to give up some tactics for your wives to use to track your internet usage.  If you have been viewing pornography, then stop and you will have nothing to worry about.  Otherwise, continue at your own risk and worry that she might read this site and discover your secrets.

Ladies, you don’t have to be super tech savvy to deploy some of these tactics to discover your husband’s use of pornography on the internet.  You will have to know your way around the computer a bit.  First off, you need access the computer you think he is using to do this.  If he has his own laptop or desktop you will need about 45 minutes to an hour to check out the computer.  I won’t get into privacy issues here, so you need to decide that on your own.

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There is more than one way to catch your husband watching porn

 

Once you have his computer go straight to the cookies, forget the internet history.  Chances are his browser automatically deletes that when shut down, but cookies are deleted manually.  Check the cookies out for obvious websites and access dates.  If you find nothing here now you will have to try one of these two solutions that will cost you a few bucks, but get you the answers you need.

The first solution uses a program to scan all the image files on the computer hard drive.  You will see all the images that the internet browser has loaded up even if he has deleted them.  This program takes some time to do its job, but you should know if any pornographic images have been loaded up on that computer.  It comes preloaded on a USB stick drive. You should get a hold of his computer and insert the USB drive in and run the program.  The program is called Discover it.  Also, I have heard success with the device: KJB Security PC401 Spy Cobra PC Monitoring Software Deluxe.  This program is no longer available.  The best thing you can do is to open windows or file explorer and do an open search for all image files.  You will have to wade through many images, most of which will be nothing to look at, but you may be able to find an pornographic images that were loaded through an internet browser.

The next solution would be to install a program on his computer or smart phone, that will run undetected in the background.  This program is not an internet filter, but will monitor the internet sites he visits.  You can set the program up to either email or text you when he visits a pornographic site.  You will get the notice within a minute of the visit and you will then know what site was visited.  This program is called Savii accountability and I have found it to be very accurate with timely notification.  I have edited this post because Savii is no longer available.  I do however recommend using a software called Covenant Eyes.  Covenant Eyes can be installed on any computer and smart phone (iPhone or Android).  What it does is monitor the internet sites that are visited and ranks them based on a rating system created by Covenant eyes.  You will automatically receive an email report weekly or you can run a report on demand on the covenant eyes website.  If he does any internet searches for porn or visits a porn site, covenant eyes will log those and preserve them for your review, even if he is good at managing his internet tracks.  Read more on the covenant eyes website:  Covenant Eyes .  Now, he will eventually have to know that you want to install thet se programs unless you are extremely sneaky.  One point I want to make is that if he has anything that runs ios (iphone, ipad, ipod) you will only be able to capture internet browsing if he uses the Covenant Eyes browser.  Apple locks down all browsers and apps from third party software, so the Covenant Eyes program cannot view any internet traffic from apps other than the CE browser on IOS devices.  Android works differently and you can see all the browsers and apps that Covenant Eyes can monitor the traffic from here: Covenant Eyes for Android

I am sure there are many other ways to discover pornography usage on a particular computer, but I will recommend only these methods because I have tried them out myself and can vouch for their effectiveness.

 


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Another point I want to make to those who decide to go through this process is to have a plan before you start.  Get your resources lined up ahead of time before you go through his computer and install anything.  Decide what you are going to do with the data once you get it.  If you don’t have a plan and follow through with your findings, then don’t attempt it.

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Here are some questions to ask yourself before you get going.  How will you get access to his computer without drawing attention?  What will you say to him regarding the way you found out about his usage?  Will you reveal how you found out?  Can you bring up the subject matter without accusations & highly charged emotions?  Are you willing to work through this with him and walk with him instead of telling him to fix himself with an ultimatum?

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I wish you the best of luck while doing your recon work.

 

 

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  3. Think Before You Act says:

    Deliberately spying on anyone’s Internet usage — including that of your own spouse — is in fact a federal crime:

    https://consumerist.com/2016/05/09/is-it-illegal-to-use-an-app-to-track-your-kid-spouse-or-employee/

    You may consider porn immoral, but with a few obvious exceptions it is perfectly legal. Cyberstalking and using spyware isn’t.

  4. Franklin Fabers says:

    It is ok If I like firearms and then it is ok if I watch action-packed movie where they shot a handful of bullet each second to kill dozens of enemies.
    It is ok if I hve a subscription to watch only gore films.
    It is ok if you scoff at stupid layoff ex-colleagues.

    BUT IT IS NOT OK I – STUPID LAYOFF WORKER – WATCH 10 HOURS A DAY PORN. LESBIAN, GAY, MILF, TILF, GURL.

    You have qualified my wife to itemize every single filthy clip I watched in months serial observation.
    She give a serious office-style presentation in the house place of our family home mustering our progeny, my mother and in-laws (why she didn’t call the neighborhood?)

    Since I took position against visiting a sex-therapist in take or leave ultimatum now I leave in garage on a campbed. The progeny and the wife park outside of this garage as if it was quarantined.

    I have No computer, No internet connection, No smartphone but just an old cellular phone.
    I am writing these post to you bastard because my wife and progeny do not know that I still have access to a family server computer with admin password.

    I have made a backup of everything and now I delete all their files from the computer. Because bastards like you teach me to be bastard.

    I do not give them back a singly bit of information if they do not admit me back in the house.

  5. The article is wrong. Covenant Eyes can’t monitor porn browsing on the Safari browser for an iPhone. You have to install a separate Covenant app and then use that to get on the Internet. So your husband would know he is being watched if he went online through the app, or he could still hide anyways just by using the regular Safari.

    Sorry but this is just how it works on phones nowadays. Apple makes it difficult to spy on users for security reasons, so your personal info can’t be stolen etc.

    • Kate, you are correct. Covenant Eyes will only monitor the internet on Iphones and other I-devices by apple if you use their browser. I am sorry if my article let you to believe otherwise. Android is different because CE works on different browsers and apps to monitor traffic that flows through those devices.

  6. Also, I am in my 40’s. So 15-20 years ago, men and their “insatiable” desires, did just fine with having a stash of magazines. If they’d get tired of the magazines, they’d buy new issues. The more explicit stuff cost more, they’d have to rent videos, or whatever–but it wasn’t like today, when they can instantly view nearly anything and everything they want to see, or didn’t even realize they wanted to see, for free. Women in this generation, not realizing that men made do with less frequent, less graphic images, more their imaginations, in the past, think what is happening today is normal, expected, how can men resist. They used to be able to live without webcams, and watching real sex, and spending hours each day, every day, lost in make believe. So the argument, that all men do it, and it’s normal, is so out of context with how men used to be able control themselves with just Playboy, Penthouse, Hustler, and rarely if ever seeing people having sex or having oral sex performed on then.

  7. 20 years ago, what would have been considered as porn addiction, by today’s standard is considered “normal” Women are being conditioned to think, all men do it, they need the visual stimulation, they need to see variety, and since they aren’t really cheating, what’s the big deal? My husband has been a stay at home father for the past 12 years. So during the day, while I was working and supporting the family, and at night, after I went to bed–I recently discovered he’d been spending 8 hours or more in a 24 hour period, saving naked pictures to discs, thousands of them, and then just started keeping them on his computer, hoarding them, labeling them in a cryptic code, until after being oblivious and subject to his strange outbursts, I started snooping. He likes teen sites, where the sites proclaim everyone is over 18, but are made to look much younger. But he’s equal opportunity, he visits any site that is free from what I can tell. I had no idea one could see actual sex for free. I’ve gone way past the point of hurt, and his behavior throughout the years now makes sense to me, where he was very controlling and domineering. Essentially, me supporting the family, I’ve paid for him to spend most of the day and night checking out porn. That is what I feel disgusted about the most. That and how porn makes these women soulless to the men. They may as well be robots. The internet has brought so much good, but it’s also been Pandora’s box because we have a bunch of male porn zombies on our hands.

  8. Hi everyone. I would just like to post that watching porn is most def cheating either way. It’s hurtful and degrading to your significant other whether they admit it or not. Some people like to watch together, they’re equally degrading one another. Were supposed to treat our significant other as a king or queen. But I guess some like being treated like animals.I value myself and feel porn is just something to watch because their partner isn’t satisfying them anymore. If your partner was so satisfying, you would never look at porn and daydream all day about that one person. I say if you’re in a bad relationship, then leave, don’t medicate with porn and keep going on like nothing happened. Bottom line is that you’re not happy with your partner and you’re making them suffer.

    • Tammy, many men get hooked on porn not because they are unsatisfied with their significant other.. it could be boredom, high sex drive, curiosity, the variety, etc. etc. They get hooked and have a hard time stopping even if they love their wife and care for them.

  9. I think It’s quite insane to consider watching porn to be cheating… And i’m a female. Just so you know ladies, if you’re trying to catch your man watching porn, you should do some self evaluation.

  10. Sorry, but hear it from a man. If you don’t give him what he needs anymore or he has a fantasy, rather share it with him, say you love him and accept that he is a guy with a sex drive. DO NOT treat it like a disease or you’ll just drive him further away. Rather try and fill the void than judging him for filling the void you may be wholly or duly responsible for.

    • SHANE,You are misguided,to justify spilling your seed over some internet whore and blaming your partner who is loyal and trusts WTF????

      • Lori you sound like a turbo-cunt. Just because a guy looks at porn doesn’t mean it’s the end of the world. There are plenty of women who enjoy porn as well and even couples who watch it together. Just because all you think about is 15 year old children when you watch porn doesn’t mean everyone else does. Stop trying to frame your insecurities as the fault of any man who watches porn.

        • Hahaha, women are seriously delusional if they think that their man is totally into them if they’re constantly NEEDING to watch porn- that’s a problem.
          Occasionally, to spice things up but constantly? That’s an addiction.

          Honestly, studies have shown that men who watch porn often cheat more.
          It makes sense. Men start to believe that porn is reality and that life is ONLY about sex.
          I had a boyfriend like this. He was totally delusional! Life doesn’t revolve around sex- it’s part of life but not the main focal point.

          By the way, MOST men are not okay with their wives/girlfriends watching porn on their own and masturbating while he’s in the other room. Why? For the SAME FUCKING REASONS women don’t like it. Hahaha.

          Also, it’s SCIENTIFICALLY proven that men need sex or want sex more than women; every person has a different sex drive. That’s just some b.s. men tried to say for years. Thank God for science to prove these dumb asses wrong.

    • I’m a high drive wife and porn is ruining my marriage. I’d sleep with my husband 5 times a day if he let me. I offer oral every chance I get. I haven’t had ANY intimacy in over 3 months. I go to the gym for 2 hours a day and remain a size 2. I’m a make-up artist and I look the part. My husband told me he was Asexual and that he wasn’t interested in sex. He said nothing I did turned him on. So I wore lingerie to bed every night, gave him massages to take his mind off of work, I cook and clean so he doesn’t worry about the house. I found out he had a red hair fetish so I dyed my hair. Then I found out that he had a porn addiction and was masturbating daily (sometimes while I was in the house). So I offered what I thought he wanted…3-Somes/bondage…anything he wanted. He would rather watch porn. He says he wants to sleep with me and wants to fix our marriage. So here I am…not because I have some vendetta against porn (I’ve offered to watch it with him and role play but he said no) but because until the porn goes away, there is no hope of repairing our relationship.

      • Sarah,It sounds like a very frustrating experience. Just the fact you go above and beyond to offer your best and nothing is working. What other solutions are you trying? ?

      • Sarah – What are his reasons for choosing porn over you? The real thing is most always better.

      • This is what I’m talking about- porn becoming the main focal point of someone’s life.
        My fiance was literally stopping at McDonald’s to watch porn in his car after work instead of coming home to have sex with me. I know more about sex than he does! I do more adventurous things and I am SMOKING HOT.
        I knew there was problem because he couldn’t stay erect during sex and he’s 23 -_-
        I have never had this problem with any other men….including men MUCH older than him- that was my first indication.
        Then, he went and cheated on me and couldn’t even stay erect during his infidelity! Then came crawling back to me professing that I’m amazing at sex and I’m a porn star…. I don’t want to be a porn star. I honestly think I’m better than some of these ridiculous women with the hilarious acting and moans. Hahaha. I genuinely enjoy sex and have a natural sexiness that I’m not afraid to flaunt and I get this BULLSHIT.
        He will stop watching porn for a while and I can see the difference and then he will start again and I will see the difference. But, he’s not trying to do better because every time he starts again he tries to hide it. He doesn’t want help and he doesn’t want to stop and damn….I’m getting tired. I have gotten to the point of watching porn by myself occasionally and masturbating because I’m so fucking sexually frustrated it’s unreal. It’s total b.s. because I get hit on everywhere I fucking go and I still haven’t cheated on this man. This is B.S.!!!

  11. I don’t get all the fus, men have a natural instinct to do the deed. It is not like he is cheating on you.

  12. Hi – I just found out that my husband has been looking at porn on his laptop. Should I confront him? How do I bring this up? I feel like yelling, screaming and crying all at once. We have been married 15 years and have 3 children. I can’t believe he would do this to me. Can anyone offer me advice?

    • Go ahead and confront him. Ask him if u can watch it together or something. It’s not that he doesn’t like you. It’s just that men are men, and you just sorta gotta let em do their thing.

      • I’m sorry Shery, but that is terrible advice. “Men will be men” is just an excuse…a terrible one at that. June should tell her husband how she feels and he should care enough about her to stop. If not, she shouldn’t have to put with that.

        • I totally agree .I cant stand when woman have that mentality .Those are the ones that put up with every thing and get stepped on all the time . They are also teaching their kids to take crap from men.

        • Sorry, but hear it from a man. If you don’t give him what he needs anymore or he has a fantasy, rather share it with him, say you love him and accept that he is a guy with a sex drive. DO NOT treat it like a disease or you’ll just drive him further away. Rather try and fill the void than judging him for filling the void you may be wholly or duly responsible for.

    • Your husband watching porn does not mean that he doesn’t love you, it is just that he has needs and like it or not it is just his natural instinct that all men have.

      • Not ALL men have that need! And the more a man watches porn, the more he thinks about watching it again! Eventually it gets to where he cant even be with a real woman anymore and his penis stays limp even when watching porn. Can still orgasm but it will be soft. Porn ruins a persons mind and life. Take it from an addict. Ive come a long way and am just recently starting to get an erection again. It ruined 3 of my marriages and I use to say the same thing to my wives that you said. “Its just a guy thing” ” All men do it” thats complete bs and it is very hurtful not only to our partner but also to ourselves. Its like a drug and people who watch it will need more and more until it becomes part of your life, then it controles you instead of you being able to controle it. If any person has nothing to hide then dont hide it. If your not ashamed of it and think its perfectly normal then why not say “, Honey, Im going to watch a slut for a while ok? ” or kids, daddys got to go watch dirty sluts to relieve tention, ill be back in a while”. The fact is that if anyone says its normal and ok then you have a problem you need to deal with. ALL MEN DONT WATCH IT!

        • Stan, you are so right in your statements about what porn does to a man. If more people knew what porn does to a man, his marriage, and his family we would be rising up against it and doing everything we could to stop it from spreading.

  13. Hi how do you install these things on I phone

    • You can go to itunes app section and download t for free. You cannot use it until you create an account on the covenant eyes website. Once you do you will use that info to log in on the phone app

  14. If he uses incognito then he thinks you can’t find out but all you have to do is go to data usage on internet carrier bill and it will show high volume at certain times of the day (early morning visits) if he looks at porn on YouTube (which uses a huge amount of data) then you will know he is watching it. You don’t need to look at his phone its on your bill

    • incognito browsing is meant to no leave any traces of your browsing on the device you are using. It won’t record the history of what you visit or leave any cookies from websites visited. This however doesn’t matter if you are using a filtering or accountability software like Covenant Eyes or Accountable2U. You are correct that your data usage logs will show internet traffic, but how do you know what it is? Lots of apps hit the internet throughout the day for updates and if you have push notifications on for apps, those check in throughout the day. I know for me, that my phone does updates, virus scanning, email retrievals, etc. once turned on first thing in the morning. That is a good bit of data

  15. When visiting my boyfriend recently and using his pc, all this porn flashed up at me. So I looked at his history and saw that he is looking at porn every day for at least an hour , even at times when he should be working. A month ago he complained that when a friend of his used the pc he went on porn sites. I dont know if he was disgusted or just gauging my reaction. We live in different countries, he is going through a rough time and has been a food addict in the past.
    I havent spoken to him yet, I want to calm down and research this whole thing. How should I talk to him? Cheers Rosa

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