How to confirm your husband watching Porn on the net

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Is Your Husband Watching Porn on the net?

Sorry guys, but I am going to give up some tactics for your wives to use to track your internet usage.  If you have been viewing pornography, then stop and you will have nothing to worry about.  Otherwise, continue at your own risk and worry that she might read this site and discover your secrets.

Ladies, you don’t have to be super tech savvy to deploy some of these tactics to discover your husband’s use of pornography on the internet.  You will have to know your way around the computer a bit.  First off, you need access the computer you think he is using to do this.  If he has his own laptop or desktop you will need about 45 minutes to an hour to check out the computer.  I won’t get into privacy issues here, so you need to decide that on your own.

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There is more than one way to catch your husband watching porn

 

Once you have his computer go straight to the cookies, forget the internet history.  Chances are his browser automatically deletes that when shut down, but cookies are deleted manually.  Check the cookies out for obvious websites and access dates.  If you find nothing here now you will have to try one of these two solutions that will cost you a few bucks, but get you the answers you need.

The first solution uses a program to scan all the image files on the computer hard drive.  You will see all the images that the internet browser has loaded up even if he has deleted them.  This program takes some time to do its job, but you should know if any pornographic images have been loaded up on that computer.  It comes preloaded on a USB stick drive. You should get a hold of his computer and insert the USB drive in and run the program.  The program is called Discover it and you can purchase it on Amazon by clicking here.  Also, I have heard success with the device: KJB Security PC401 Spy Cobra PC Monitoring Software Deluxe.

The next solution would be to install a program on his computer that will run undetected in the background.  This program is not an internet filter, but will monitor the internet sites he visits.  You can set the program up to either email or text you when he visits a pornographic site.  You will get the notice within a minute of the visit and you will then know what site was visited.  This program is called Savii accountability and I have found it to be very accurate with timely notification.

I am sure there are many other ways to discover pornography usage on a particular computer, but I will recommend only these methods because I have tried them out myself and can vouch for their effectiveness.

Another point I want to make to those who decide to go through this process is to have a plan before you start.  Get your resources lined up ahead of time before you go through his computer and install anything.  Decide what you are going to do with the data once you get it.  If you don’t have a plan and follow through with your findings, then don’t attempt it.

Here are some questions to ask yourself before you get going.  How will you get access to his computer without drawing attention?  What will you say to him regarding the way you found out about his usage?  Will you reveal how you found out?  Can you bring up the subject matter without accusations & highly charged emotions?  Are you willing to work through this with him and walk with him instead of telling him to fix himself with an ultimatum?

I wish you the best of luck while doing your recon work.

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Four reasons why your husband watches internet porn

Is watching pornography cheating? – using pornography compared to cheating or adultery

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Teenagers Growing up with Pornography as a Norm

Recently it seems that there are many articles out there about teenagers addicted to pornography.  It always gets me thinking about what these kids believe to be truth and what is normal in regards to porn and sex.

Kids growing up now know the following to be true and normal:

  • Pornography is everywhere
  • Pornography is a normal way to learn about sex
  • Pornography is acceptable to use when anytime you get sexual urges
  • Women know that everyone uses porn and they are OK with it
  • Women can satisfy their man by acting like a porn star
  • Frequent pornography use is normal and there are no side effect

It is sad really.  Many kids today have parents that buy into the progressive thinking of today and don’t monitor what their kids do on the internet.  Pornography is freedom of speech to them and even healthy for them to use.  We can’t censor what our kids consume they say, kids have their rights you know.

How very destructive this is for them!  These kids will grow up to be adults who can’t relate intimately with one another.  They will be selfish seeking their own gratification  and needs instead of trying to serve their mate.  Their libidos will be burned out from countless images and climaxes burned into their memories.  Sexual intimacy will not be enjoyed like it was meant to be.

With this new normalcy, will they even realize the damage it has done?  Will the drug industry come out with new drugs to bring back burned out libidos and sexual dysfunction?  How much worse could they slide morally?

Other articles you may like:

Why pornography is addictive

The side effects of using pornography

 

 

 

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Porn Addiction Books

Porn Addiction Books that I recommend

I have been asked to give a recommended list of books on porn addiction.  Below you will find six books I suggest reading on the subject.

These books are for anyone who struggles with pornography or for those who know someone who struggles.  Clicking on the titles will take you to Amazon where you can read what others say and then purchase the book.

porn addiction books that i recommend

The Way of Purity: Enjoy Lasting Freedom in Christ (Setting Captives Free) by Mike Cleveland. Mike Cleveland is a fantastic speaker and author with regards to strongholds and addictions.  I had the privilege to hear him speak at my church last year.  Mike founded the website Setting Captives Free and this book goes along with the study on Pornography addiction.

Porn Nation Student Edition: The Naked Truth by Michael Leahy.
This book is the true story of how the author lost his marriage and family to pornography addiction.  The truth is laid bare in this book which holds no punches and shows you how pornography destroys a life.  A MUST read

The Drug of the New Millennium – The Brain Science Behind Internet Pornography by Mark B. Kastleman. This amazing book shows you scientific proof how pornography alters the brain and directly impacts our attitudes and behaviors.  Did you also know that the chemicals  released while watching pornography is the same as those for a person doing drugs?  Get this book.

Pure Desire: Helping People Break Free from Sexual Struggles by Ted Roberts. I read this book right after I realized that I had a problem with pornography.  Ted had me nodding my head in agreement so much that I thought I was getting whiplash!  This book is so down to earth yet it deals directly with the problem and how you must change.

An Affair of the Mind by Laurie Hall. Focus on the Family recommended this book to my wife right after she learned of my problem.  I even read the book and agree it is a MUST read for any wife whose husband has a problem with pornography.  It helps the woman of the addict understand why her husband is addicted and how she can help him.

I Surrender All: Rebuilding a Marriage Broken by Pornography by Clay Crosse. Clay is a contemporary Christian musician who inexplicably lost his voice.  He was not sick, but after some probing by a voice coach he confessed his addiction to pornography.  This book documents his story and rebuilding of his marriage.  Good book.

I was shocked while looking these up on Amazon.  If you type in the keywords: Pornography addiction, you get 87 different books on the topic!

Do you have any books on porn addiction that you recommend?  Leave your comments below.

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